We grew up poor as church mice. We didn’t know it at the time, but……
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The one scripture that has killed more marriages than any other
Marriage advice is that. Advice. There are some pretty good rules though. Don’t cheat. Don’t…
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There is no weather, there is only walking the dog. Part 2
My daughter wanted a dog. My son wanted a dog. My wife wanted a dog….
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Set Aside or Set Apart
Catherine Bergeron is a phenomenal coach who works in Sherbrooke, Quebec, up in Canada. Recently,…
Money can solve most of life’s problems. Solving the remaining ones makes you truly rich.
There was a time, not too long ago, when the credit card bills were way…
The Unexpected Solution to Anxiety
I was having panic attacks a while back. They started when my daughter and I…
Trajectories and in course corrections
I know some people who were slightly off in their 20ies. It wasn’t enough to…
Ja Morant- Cry for Help or Entitled Celebrity?
I’m a basketball fan. As a kid, I knew all the players in the NBA,…
11 things to do before you turn 40
This blog began with 40 life lessons I learned before I turned 40. Almost 10…
Honest reflections on Unhealthy relationships: Affirm me when I need to affirm myself.
If a person in my life has a constant need for affirmation, it may be…
Honest reflections on Unhealthy Relationships part 2: complaints
We can often find outselves hiding our needs in a complaint. We haven’t had a…
What to do when your relationships feel distant. Honest reflections on unhealthy relationships
We all have them. Unhealthy patterns in otherwise healthy relationships. I believe in counseling. So…
Friends, Money and Social Class
How to be friends with people from different social classes. I spent a number of…
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There is no weather, there is only walking the dog. Part 1
I live in the Northland. I have a dog. Fortunately, she’s lazy. One walk a…
Life Lessons: 49 Life Lessons. Lifecartography, 9 years later.
49 Life lessons learned by age 49. As I approached 40 years old, I decided…
My panic attack and Simon Biles Olympic dreams.
Simon Biles is an amazing woman. She is powerful, charismatic, but still only human after…
Never Split the Difference- For professional coaches.
Coaching questions drawn from Chris Voss Never Split the difference How cool is a former…
Immoral AI, Ultron and the American presidential election.
As I sat and watched my home country turn upon itself in the last few…
Why I turned off comments on my blog
I hadn’t blogged in a few weeks, when I had an idea and opened my…
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The Myth of Human Potential.
Showtime. Bad Boys. Come Fly with me. If those phrases connect at all with you,…